How do I secretly find out my loved one's ring size?
- Michael Fagan

- Nov 1, 2024
- 2 min read

One of the hardest parts of planning a surprise proposal, anniversary gift or special occasion isn't choosing the perfect ring—it's figuring out the right size without giving away the surprise.
Fortunately, there's a simple trick that can make the job much easier.
At Williamsburg Jewelers, we offer the free use of our ring mandrels (also called a ring sizing stick) that you can borrow to help determine the size of your loved one's existing rings. If they regularly leave a favorite ring on their dresser, in a jewelry box or by the sink, you can discreetly slide it onto the mandrel to find its size—then return it before they ever know it was missing.
It's a simple tool, but it has helped countless customers pull off unforgettable surprises.
Of course, every situation is a little different. Maybe you're planning a proposal and want everything to be perfect. Maybe you're replacing a lost ring, celebrating a milestone anniversary or surprising your spouse "just because." Whatever the occasion, we'd be happy to offer ideas and guidance on the best way to estimate the correct size while keeping your plans completely under wraps.
One thing we've learned after many years in the jewelry business is that great surprises often require a little creativity—and a trustworthy accomplice. That's a role we love to play. Our team understands how important these moments are, and we take pride in helping you protect the surprise from start to finish. Whether that means recommending the right ring, helping you estimate the size or simply keeping your secret safe while your loved one shops with us for something entirely unrelated, we're happy to help.
So if you're thinking about giving someone a ring, stop by Williamsburg Jewelers and borrow one of our loaner mandrels. It's completely free, it's easy to use, and it just might be the key to pulling off the perfect surprise.
We'll keep your secret safe until you're ready to make the big reveal.










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